A buddy of mine asked for a huge favour yesterday. He intended to come and live at my place for longer than a month.
Although I thought I would help him out, I couldn't do it. It is not just me anymore, its US and I must put our feelings first.
The shocking reality is he did the exact same thing last year as well. Same situation (no money, no job) and we took him in. Not only does he have a pit bull, but he is also impossible person to share a flat with.
At the end even his girlfriend came to stay for a while. Never asked if it is ok with us, never thanked us and just left one night.
So this time I had to say no. I despised the fact that I was forced to do it but it would have been awful to put myself and my girlfriend through this hell again.
It was the right thing to do but I still feel bad about it. Thinking of him sleeping in his car with his dog...not good
But since I have already helped him once, he has no right to ask me again and put me in such a difficult situation. No one should be put through this!
Its one thing to help people and another to be taken for a ride. Hell, I moved to another country to get away from people trying to use me.
There are times when people should just know and not ask for favours!
I'm quite capable of ruining my life without someone else's help
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